Recovery

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Game, pasensha may hangover pa sa pinanood ko.. wala yon. some educational shut up dont judge me.




Anyways,

Most of us eh dinaanan natin to. minsan sa isang tao lang, minsan sa lahat. What im talking about is.. yung hangover ng Ex mo. lalo na kung totoo ung binigay mo. pag binasag ka na, boom. GG. its over. pero xempre, dahil life goes on. wala tayo choice kundi mag recover. based on my experience tong mga Recovery techniques, feel free to add.



in every breakups, there is a winner and a loser. We are here to survive, not to win or lose.




THE FRIEND BARRIER

Difficulty: 3/10 most of us have friends right?

How To: "that's what friends are for." There are times that all you need is someone to talk to, to share your thoughts. call a heart to heart talk with some close or best friends, surely they would understand since they are your close friends. Just let them be a shock absorber. Refrain from crying if you are a guy.

Recovery rate: 8/10

Personal Comments: A usual recovery technique. also effective. It doesn't expend too much energy. It doesn't usually hurt or involve Third parties. And hey, bonding with friends right?




THE COLD PLAY

Difficulty: 5/10

How To: From the name itself. Be cold, not to your friends but to your ex. Act hard, like you don't even care about the breakup. She/He asks, you don't answer. Ignore her. Just, be COLD.

Recovery rate: 4/10

Personal Comments: This, may not be as effective depending on your emotional state. But as for me, this is my first and usually my last defense for a breakup. difficulty is normal because you act somehow neutral, but somehow bitter. recovery rate not so good because even if you stiffen yourself up, admit it, you still feel pain deep inside.




THE REBOUND-ER

Difficulty: 8/10. Depends. If you already have a backup Chick/Guy. then its a 2/10

How To: Simply play with your backup. or if you don't have any, you find a Guy/Girl. Scenario is; you just got up from a breakup, but you still feel the void of your former loved one. So you find someone to fill the space.

Recovery rate: 7/10

Personal Comments: I did this once, but i really don't recommend this. Tho i'm not one to judge. Just remember that your rebound also has feelings. Sometimes killing two birds in one stone ain't nice.




THE PLAYMAKER

Difficulty: 9/10. Depends on your game. *wink*

How To: Barhopping, socializing, making lots of friends. But mostly gaining a number from that hot Chick/dude from across the room. of course you won't get any if you wont make a play. >:)

Recovery rate: 9/10

Personal Comments: Very effective. Since you socialize, you make friends, you get your mind off the breakup. But in some cases, Especially when you had that 3-99 year relationship, this recovery style wont even work that well.




THE MASKED SMILE

Difficulty: 6/10

How To: Look happy every time He/She sees you. When He/She asks, say things like "i'm okay, thanks for asking" or "im good, how about you?" and of course, you flash that fake smile. Just act like everything is okay.

Recovery rate: 4/10

Personal Comments: The counterpart of the Cold play. This is actually harder for me 'cuz.. well, i'm not good at smiling. Recovery rate is bad. Same as the Cold play, you know it still hurts inside. The bright side is, you look like a breakup winner.




SHOT TIL YOU DROP

Difficulty: 7/10. You a PRO drinker? 1/10

How To: Invite your mates, set a Place for your drinking buddies, go to a Bar, or just purchase liquor from a shop and then make shots for yourself. Drink your problems away, Drink like there's no more person to love.

Recovery rate: 2/10

Personal Comments: Yes, you'd forget the tragic past that is the breakup. You will have absolute fun with your mates. Problem is, this thing is just overnight. The next morning all you will have is a hangover, some wasted fellows around you, and the memory you tried to kill with liquor? It still lingers.




THE NINE TAILED FOX

Difficulty: 3/10

How To: Hate Him/Her, Despise Him/Her, Curse His/Her guts, Hate the person for who He/She is and what He/She stands for. you WILL look bitter but what the hell, Screw the Person who screwed you.

Recovery rate: 1/10

Personal Comments: I never tried this, but i know a certain person who did this recovery process. And i tell you, he recovered as fast as.. well he never recovered. I also do not recommend this because you will look VERY bitter, you WILL be the breakup loser, you won't help yourself recover that well, and you just tend to hurt your former beloved. think about it.




SUICIDE

Difficulty: 11/10

How To: kill yourself.

Recovery rate: 10/10

Personal Comments: NO. JUST DON'T. if you are very broken and battered, if you think you can't survive the breakup.. Just remember, you have family, you have friends. Maybe the pain is too great, but sacrificing your own life is NEVER worth it. Don't have any family? don't have any friends? We.. yes.. We, the Sovereignty family WILL accept you with open arms. :)








so there you go, hope this helps you get back from whatever breakups y'all felt.
again, feel free to add. i only written what i did, i saw, and i knew but never did.



Just remember.. "Time heals" so don't rush. :3








-Popsy