Welcome to Existence (complete)

Interactions between two or more persons in everyday life are delicate, purely authentic and unimaginable. We live in a world where friends are everywhere. Friends who are also real and who are not. But it's not about picking friends for our common good. It's all about our interaction and how we could sustain a stable relationship with others, without external influence of course. The issues in discrimination's when it comes in choosing friends are very sensitive and fragile and sometimes rumors are so power full that they exist everywhere, giving some brief introduction about a person we are about to know more. And when it comes in influences, peers are here to take the place. Peers are influential, whether you know some of them or not. The point is we listen to them. This peer pressure we have is some kind of natural phenomenon , like a usual existence that we meet in our daily lives. A kind of pressure where seduction and hypnotism take place. No, seriously it's all about loosing control. And we usually run out of clear thinking once were already under it.

We know it's just like a cycle. We do unpleasant things under the influence of peer pressures, we experience the bitterness of our own mistakes and we do it again.

Nothing is new... Everything is common.

But still we have always hopes because we know that the only thing that could save us from ourselves is a fine interaction with others... We know that. But we fail to have one. Yes, its understood that we should choose our friends properly but sometimes, they choose us. There's nothing we can do about it. all we could do is ask the best of whatever they have. We have the right to ask the best of whatever we deserve from them. If we feel their company unworthy then disregard them. Forget what will they say. We got rid of evil deeds and most of all we protected ourselves. We proclaimed goodness in our environment all and we made our hearts contented.

Of course, we still meet people who seem to dare our patience and dignity. But let's just ignore the devil inside of them. Devils that awakens another devil from us.

As we strive hard to attain good interaction. We feed the presence of decency inside us. The benefits of good association to others are priceless and extraordinary. Were just the ones who are able to work out on ourselves. We are the ones who make our future. We put them together, we construct our prospects so why include persons who would destroy our upcoming our interface and communication with others would help us to overlook the better outcome for us.



-Lemz

Transparency

Ill make this somehow short and simple..

Masasabi ko lang, dahil hanap tayo ng hanap ng "the perfect one" or para mas realistic eh "the ideal one", hindi na natin nakikita ung mga taong nsa harap natin.. kasi minsan kung sino pa yung laging nag aalala sayo, laging anjan, sumasalo sayo pag pumapalpak ka.. some of us meron niyan. pero after nila tayong alagaan from our fall, larga lang ulit tayo diba? hanap ulit ng chik jan or ng boy.. Without even thanking the one who actually cared..



im not saying na bat di nalang siya ung ligawan mo or what pero, mga ganyang klaseng tao eh, wag mo ibalewala.. kasi once na sila na yung umayaw sayo, sabi nga ng isang close friend ko "Its over". malay mo, siya pala yung "the one for you" talaga.. pinapabayaan mo lang dahil sa standards mong imposible..




"Akala mo lang mas nakakalasing ang Happy horse, di mo alam pareho lang sila ng alcohol content ng Red horse. panong di ka malalasing eh naka sampung bote ka na bago mo pa nakita at kinuha yung Masayang kabayo. Redhorse yung nagpalasing sayo hindi 'tong happy horse."




-Popsy

The Platinum Rule

i got this one from a master. one of my favorites. Barney Stinson.


The golden rule.. y'all know that. i don't really need to explain it. BUT- there is a rule, higher than gold. it's called the Platinum rule: Never ever EVER ever love your neighbors (friends, coworkers, guildmates, etc.)


Why? ehem ehem. i'ma explain it to you. step by step. so listen / read properly.


oh, before that.. i'm going to use my own terms ayt? i'll use "her", "guildmate", "EB"(eyeball, guildmate get togethers.) etc. :3



Game, game, game..



ATTRACTION. The first sign of the rule. its when you get too attached in game and then suddenly, you just miss her. in EB's you hope she comes, and when you're together, these tiny sparks just flies past both of you.


BARGAINING. Tol, High Priest cia, Mechanic ako. magandang samahan to.. iwas pa sa sunugan ng supply.. bagay naman kami diba?. You sell her to your mates. letting them see why both of you would be perfect for each other.


SUBMISSION. wew. this is it.. You and i can be like Sonny and Cher, honey and bear~ Yes. both of you feels the same way now. wow wow wow.... *tu tu tu tut tu tuuu* (level up sound)


ahhh... the PERKS. "Hey, let's level up together, Endless tower sucks.. can you support me in Biolabs? oh, you need some zeny? of course. got sh*tloads of it my dear.." Would you look at that. both parties are happy. but there will always be a time that fate will rip both of you apart. sooner or later..


the TIPPING POINT. "you weren't online last night.. what happened? did you not receive my PM? i told you i need you, you didn't even showed up. i ain't going to no EB unless you're there. screw our guildmates all i want to meet is you. " ....The time wherein your online relationship seems to be tighter.. til it chokes you. til it hurts one or both of you..


now. We step into the PURGATORY. This is where you feel the need to get out of your bond. the ties between the mechanic and the high priest. one of you, or even both gets irritated.. but you can't say it directly because you don't want to hurt anyone. especially not her.


sigh.. we all hate this, but we need to get through. CONFRONTATION. The time you say "we need to talk.." you had enough of the fights, the misunderstandings, the pain. "Its time to end this." one walks away. The other, just stays.


FALLOUT. both of you are guildmates. you play the same game. you have each others numbers. but it's not the same anymore. You try to be cold, she tries to avoid you, awkward silences, everything that's about her just kills you.. and then you say to yourself "I'll never survive this.. God knows what she thinks of me.."



Sad ending? not really. there is one rule that will overshadow these feelings, the pain, the awkward silence. everything.

THE RULE OF COEXISTENCE.
No matter what you do. She will always be a High Priest support and warper, you will always be a Suicide Mechanic killing enemy lines. both in the same guild. sa tagalog, kahit anung gawin niu eh, mgkasama parin kayo.. iisa parin kayo, sove parin diba? magkakasundo parin kayo sooner or later. you'll realize that those awkward silences will fade. The pain both of you obtained. The feelings will also fade, but it will be replaced with something better..

Sabi nga sa song ni bamboo "It will all get better, All we need is time.."




so, hope this helps, lalo na ke JLo. haha.. peace y'all.




-Popsy